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Thriving Through Alzheimer’s

Discover how these positive people are seeing the blessings of every day while living with this progressive neurologic disorder.

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One afternoon, Nia found her TV re­mote in her refrigerator.

Nia Mostacero
      Nia Mostacero

A few years ago, that would have sent the 46-year-old retired Air Force officer down a rabbit hole of fear. Was her early-stage dementia progressing? Her mind slipping away?

Instead, Nia switched on her favor­ite show. “I don’t sweat the small stuff anymore,” she says. “When you have Alzheimer’s, every day is a blessing. The future? That’s in God’s hands.”

Between volunteering at church, working out, reading her Bible and at­tending the young adult early-onset support group she founded, there’s not much time for relaxing. “You can still feel fulfilled with a dementia diag­nosis,” Nia says. “Your life isn’t over.”

Her attitude wasn’t always so sunny. Twenty years into her Air Force career, she found herself making errors in her work. She put them off as stress. Then came the day she couldn’t remember how to start her car. The diagnosis, in 2017, was devastating. Her doctor gave her five to eight years to live.

Her military career over, Nia sank into a deep depression. Stopped go­ing to church. But ultimately she re­alized she couldn’t face this enemy alone. She went back to church. Be­gan talking to God all the time, rather than praying at set times. Through the Alzheimer’s Association, Nia found a support group, then started her own for people who are 65 and younger.

She finds strength in Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, with its ending message: “Pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” Words Nia lives by.

“I feel like God is not allowing me to progress as quickly,” she says, “so I can help others.”


Rod realized his dream of becoming a minister late in life. He loved minis­tering to his parishioners, preparing sermons, immersing himself in Bible study. But it’s now, at 75 and facing early-stage dementia, that he feels closest to God.

Rod Stephenson
Rod Stephenson

“God is in control. I know that more deeply than ever,” he says. “This isn’t my problem to solve, and yet I’m able to talk to the One who has all the an­swers. That gives me such comfort.”

Rod was diagnosed with mild cog­nitive impairment in 2020. He had already left the ministry because of health problems. He and his wife, Deb, were caring for his mother, who was in the late stages of Alzheimer’s. No one had to tell them the toll the dis­ease would take. “It was hard to think about anything but how this will end for me,” he says. “Deb cried every day.”

The couple called the Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline. “That was the best thing we could have done,” Rod says. “It connected us with other people who are on this journey.”

He and Deb began praying together, a practice that has strengthened their marriage. “I’ve learned how impor­tant it is to be open with your spouse,” he says. “It has created a deeper bond between us.”

Still, there are times when Rod battles negative thoughts. On those days, he turns to Scripture—Romans 8:38–39: “For I am convinced that neither death nor life…nor anything else in all creation will be able to sepa­rate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

“I’m reminded that every day is a blessing,” Rod says. “Alzheimer’s can’t take that away from me.”

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